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Vanessa and Kobe Bryant | Source: Getty Images
Vanessa and Kobe Bryant | Source: Getty Images

How Vanessa Bryant Found Purpose in Grief After Losing Kobe and Gianna

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Dec 12, 2025
11:29 A.M.

After an unimaginable loss, Vanessa Bryant has chosen to live with her grief while honoring Kobe and Gianna through continued service, carrying forward the values they believed in and turning remembrance into purpose.

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The deaths of Kobe Bryant and his daughter Gianna in January 2020 altered the course of Vanessa Bryant's life in ways that extend far beyond public mourning.

Kobe and Vanessa Bryant attend EIF Women's Cancer Research Fund's 16th Annual “An Unforgettable Evening” presented by Saks Fifth Avenue at the Beverly Wilshire Four Seasons Hotel on May 2, 2013 in Beverly Hills, California. | Source: Getty Images

Kobe and Vanessa Bryant attend EIF Women's Cancer Research Fund's 16th Annual “An Unforgettable Evening” presented by Saks Fifth Avenue at the Beverly Wilshire Four Seasons Hotel on May 2, 2013 in Beverly Hills, California. | Source: Getty Images

While the tragedy was felt around the world, its impact has remained deeply personal for the family left behind. In the years since, Vanessa has focused on preserving the spirit of Kobe and Gianna not through reflection alone, but through meaningful action.

Kobe and Gianna were traveling together by helicopter to a basketball-related commitment in Southern California. Kobe was expected to coach his daughter, who had already committed herself to the sport with discipline and enthusiasm.

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Kobe Bryant and daughter Gianna Bryant attend a basketball game between the Los Angeles Lakers and the Dallas Mavericks at Staples Center on December 29, 2019 in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Kobe Bryant and daughter Gianna Bryant attend a basketball game between the Los Angeles Lakers and the Dallas Mavericks at Staples Center on December 29, 2019 in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

The aircraft crashed in the Calabasas area, resulting in the deaths of all nine people on board. For Vanessa, the loss marked the beginning of an ongoing journey shaped by grief, resilience, and responsibility.

Rather than allowing Kobe and Gianna's influence to fade into memory, Vanessa sought a way to extend their values into the future. That vision became the Mamba & Mambacita Sports Foundation, a nonprofit organization she established to honor their shared belief in opportunity, access, and equality in youth sports.

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Kobe Bryant stands on the sideline with his daughter Gianna Maria-Onore Bryant on his shoulders prior to the start of the game against the United States and China during an international firendly match at Qualcomm Stadium on April 10, 2014 in San Diego, California. | Source: Getty Images

Kobe Bryant stands on the sideline with his daughter Gianna Maria-Onore Bryant on his shoulders prior to the start of the game against the United States and China during an international firendly match at Qualcomm Stadium on April 10, 2014 in San Diego, California. | Source: Getty Images

The foundation reflects the principles Kobe instilled throughout his career and the passion Gianna showed as she followed in his footsteps.

At its core, the foundation focuses on supporting underserved athletes who face financial and structural barriers to participation. By providing funding to schools, leagues, and community programs, it helps young people afford equipment, uniforms, and registration fees that might otherwise keep them on the sidelines.

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The goal is not only participation, but empowerment, ensuring that boys and girls alike have the chance to pursue athletic dreams without limitation.

Vanessa's commitment to service has also extended beyond sports. In January 2025, she responded to destructive fires affecting communities including the Palisades, Altadena, and Malibu.

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Through the Mamba & Mambacita Sports Foundation, she donated 8,000 pieces of clothing and sneakers to individuals and families impacted by the disaster. The effort reflected a broader philosophy that honoring legacy also means responding to immediate human needs.

In May 2025, Vanessa marked another significant tribute with the opening of the Kobe and Gianna Bryant Basketball Court in East Los Angeles. Partially funded by the foundation, the court was designed as both a community space and a lasting memorial.

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Finished in gold and purple, it incorporates visual elements that speak to remembrance and growth, including a central logo bearing Kobe and Gianna's names, framed by butterflies.

Along one sideline, the message "Play Gigi's Way" serves as a guiding reminder of Gianna's approach to the game. The court stands as a place where young athletes can gather, compete, and find inspiration, grounded in the values Kobe and Gianna represented both on and off the court.

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For Vanessa Bryant, purpose has not replaced grief, nor has it diminished loss. Instead, it has become a way to live alongside it.

Through philanthropy, community investment, and quiet leadership, she has ensured that Kobe and Gianna's influence continues to reach new generations.

Vanessa Bryant (L) and Natalia Bryant attend a basketball game between the Los Angeles Lakers and the Golden State Warriors at Crypto.com Arena on October 21, 2025 in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Vanessa Bryant (L) and Natalia Bryant attend a basketball game between the Los Angeles Lakers and the Golden State Warriors at Crypto.com Arena on October 21, 2025 in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

In choosing action rooted in care and intention, Vanessa has demonstrated that legacy is not defined by what is lost, but by what continues to be built in its name.

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