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Zendaya and Tom Holland | Source: Getty Images
Zendaya and Tom Holland | Source: Getty Images

From Co-Stars to Soulmates: The Love Story of Zendaya and Tom Holland

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Dec 18, 2025
06:25 A.M.

Hollywood romances often burn fast and fade just as quickly, but Zendaya and Tom Holland built something quieter and far more enduring, letting years of friendship lay the groundwork for a love story that unfolded on their own terms.

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Zendaya and Tom Holland’s story begins on the set of Marvel’s reboot of the Spider-Man franchise. In 2016, the two were cast as MJ and Peter Parker, launching a partnership that would eventually extend far beyond the screen. Production on "Spider-Man: Homecoming" began in June 2016, with the film released in July 2017.

Their chemistry was evident early on, though not everyone encouraged it. Producer Amy Pascal later revealed to The New York Times that she had tried to discourage a romance. “I took Tom and Zendaya aside, separately, when we first cast them and gave them a lecture: ‘Don’t go there — just don’t. Try not to,’” she said.

Tom Holland and Zendaya are seen leaving The Duke of York's Theatre after a 'Romeo and Juliet' press night on May 23, 2024 in London, England. | Source: Getty Images

Tom Holland and Zendaya are seen leaving The Duke of York's Theatre after a 'Romeo and Juliet' press night on May 23, 2024 in London, England. | Source: Getty Images

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Just Friends, They Insisted (2017)

As promotion for "Spider-Man: Homecoming" ramped up, so did speculation about the nature of their relationship. Both actors were quick to shut down the rumors, often with humor.

After a fan suggested online that the co-stars vacationed together, Zendaya responded, “Wait wait...my favorite is when it says we go on vacations together HA! I haven’t been on a vacation in years! hbu @TomHolland1996 ???”

Holland quickly joined in, replying, “Does the press tour count.” At the time, they maintained that their bond was nothing more than a close friendship.

Tom Holland and Zendaya appear in Barcelona on the occasion of the CineEurope event on June 18, 2017 in Barcelona, Spain. | Source: Getty Images

Tom Holland and Zendaya appear in Barcelona on the occasion of the CineEurope event on June 18, 2017 in Barcelona, Spain. | Source: Getty Images

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Different Paths, Same Connection (2019–2020)

For a period, Zendaya and Holland appeared to be romantically involved with other people. In 2019, Zendaya was spotted with her "Euphoria" co-star Jacob Elordi while walking around New York City. Around the same time, Holland went public with British actress Nadia Parkes, sharing photos of the two together on Instagram.

Despite the separate relationships, Zendaya and Holland remained close, continuing to support each other professionally and personally.

Tom Holland and Zendaya pose at the after party for the premiere of Sony Pictures' "Spider-Man: Far From Home" on June 26, 2019 in Hollywood, California. | Source: Getty Images

Tom Holland and Zendaya pose at the after party for the premiere of Sony Pictures' "Spider-Man: Far From Home" on June 26, 2019 in Hollywood, California. | Source: Getty Images

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The Kiss That Changed Everything (July 2021)

After years of speculation and denials, the narrative shifted dramatically in July 2021. Photos surfaced showing Zendaya and Holland kissing inside a car at a red light in Los Angeles.

The images sent fans into a frenzy and confirmed what many had long suspected. Still, the pair did not rush to comment publicly, choosing to keep their relationship largely private.

Tom Holland and Zendaya attendsthe Los Angeles premiere of Sony Pictures' 'Spider-Man: No Way Home' on December 13, 2021 in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Tom Holland and Zendaya attendsthe Los Angeles premiere of Sony Pictures' 'Spider-Man: No Way Home' on December 13, 2021 in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Making It Official, Their Way (September 2021)

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Zendaya and Holland finally confirmed their romance on social media in September 2021, coinciding with Zendaya’s 25th birthday. Holland shared a behind-the-scenes photo from the Spider-Man set on Instagram and wrote, “My MJ, have the happiest of birthdays, Gimme a call when your [sic] up xxx.”

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Love as a Source of Strength (April 2023)

As Zendaya took on one of her most emotionally demanding roles yet in "Euphoria," Holland became a steady source of support. He later told IMDb that he visited the set “at least 30 times” during filming.

Zendaya confirmed his presence and encouragement in an interview with Entertainment Tonight, saying Holland “supported me through the whole season.”

“I think it’s great to have that support and love around you, because you need that,” she said. Reflecting on how their time together helped her decompress, she added, “This isn’t an easy job, so it’s good to have that to free you up from it every now and then.”

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A Ring That Spoke Volumes (January 2025)

Zendaya sparked engagement speculation when she appeared at the 82nd Annual Golden Globes wearing a noticeable ring. Nominated for her role in "Challengers," she walked the red carpet in a tangerine-toned custom Louis Vuitton gown, even though Holland was not in attendance.

Soon after, People confirmed the engagement, reporting that Holland proposed sometime during the 2024 winter holidays in a private, low-key moment. TMZ later added that Holland had asked Zendaya’s father, Kazembe Ajamu Coleman, for his blessing beforehand.

Zendaya attends the 82nd Annual Golden Globe Awards at The Beverly Hilton on January 05, 2025 in Beverly Hills, California. Source: Getty Images

Zendaya attends the 82nd Annual Golden Globe Awards at The Beverly Hilton on January 05, 2025 in Beverly Hills, California. Source: Getty Images

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One Word Says It All (September 2025)

By September 2025, the couple left no room for ambiguity. During a public panel, a reporter casually referred to Zendaya as Holland’s “girlfriend.” Holland laughed before correcting them with a single word: “Fiancée.”

Zendaya and Tom Holland’s relationship did not follow the typical Hollywood trajectory. It evolved slowly, shaped by friendship, mutual respect, and unwavering support.

What began as a shared role in a superhero franchise ultimately grew into a lasting partnership, proving that sometimes the strongest love stories are the ones that take years to fully unfold.

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