I Rushed Out of My Husband's Birthday Celebration after What He Did

I'm 39 weeks pregnant, and I was trying to smile through the pain and exhaustion at my husband's birthday dinner last week. Then he turned to me and said something that made me grab my daughter's hand and walk out. I'll never forget that night. I'm sure nobody in the family will.

My name's Catherine, but everyone calls me Cathy. I'm 38, and 39 weeks pregnant with baby number two. The baby could come any day now.

My belly stretches so tight I feel like a balloon ready to burst. Every step sends shooting pains down my legs. Sleep? What's that? I haven't seen a full night's rest in weeks.

We already have Zoey. She's four, all pigtails and endless questions. This pregnancy has been different though. Harder, honestly. The doctor says it's because I'm over 35. High risk, they call it.

"Cathy, you need to take it easy," Dr. Smith told me last week. "Rest is crucial now."

Rest. Right. Tell that to Alan.

My husband has made it to exactly one ultrasound appointment. One... out of dozens. While I've been to every checkup, every test, and every moment of worry alone.

"I have to work, Cath," he always says. "Someone has to pay the bills."

But weekends? He works those too. He was voluntarily leaving me to chase a four-year-old around while my back screams and my feet swell like balloons.

I've been begging him for months to help with the nursery. Simple things, you know. Move boxes. Hang curtains. Set up the crib.

"I'll get to it," he promised. Every. Single. Time.

The nursery still sits half-finished. Boxes are scattered everywhere. No curtains. And the crib leans against the wall like a forgotten thought.

"When are you going to finish this?" I asked him two weeks ago, rubbing my aching lower back.

"Soon, Cath. God, you're always nagging."

Nagging? Right.

So, last Tuesday was Alan's 39th birthday. His sister Kelly called that morning.

"I want to throw him a little party at my place. Nothing fancy. Just family dinner. You, Alan, Zoey, Mom, Dad, and my boyfriend Jake."

It sounded nice. I thought maybe we could have one peaceful evening together.

"That sounds wonderful, Kelly. Thank you."

I spent the afternoon getting ready. Well, as ready as a woman who looks like she swallowed a watermelon. I put on my nicest maternity dress. The old one that used to make Alan smile when I was pregnant with our first child.

He didn't even notice.

We arrived at Kelly's apartment around six. The smell of roast chicken filled the air. Soft jazz played from the speakers. Candles flickered on the dining table. It was heavenly.

"Happy birthday, son!" Grace, Alan's mother, hugged him tight. She's always been kind to me. She's more of a mother than my own, really.

"Thanks, Mom. This looks great, Kel."

***

Dinner started pleasantly enough. Kelly had made all of Alan's favorites. Roast chicken with herbs. Mashed potatoes. Green bean casserole. The birthday cake sat on the counter, chocolate with vanilla frosting.

Zoey chattered about her day at preschool. Grace asked about my pregnancy. Jake told funny stories from his job at the fire station.

I tried to ignore the constant pressure in my pelvis. My back screamed every time I shifted in my chair. This was Alan's night. I wanted it to be special.

Then halfway through the main course, Alan turned to me with this bright smile like he'd just solved world hunger.

"You know what, Cath? After dinner, why don't you take Zoey home and get her to bed? I'll stay here with everyone else. And keep the party going."

I blinked. "What do you mean?"

His smile got wider and more excited. "Come on, babe! This is my last chance to really celebrate before the baby comes. I want to drink some beer with Jake. Maybe smoke a cigar on the balcony. Stay up late like the old days."

The fork slipped from my fingers and clattered against my plate.

"You want me to leave? And take Zoey home alone?"

"Well, yeah." Alan shrugged like this was perfectly reasonable. "You're tired anyway, right? You're always grumbling about how tired you are. And someone needs to put Zoey to bed."

I stared at my husband. This man I'd loved for eight years. Who I'd built a life with. Who was supposed to be my partner.

"Alan. I'm 39 weeks pregnant. The baby could come tonight."

"Oh, come on, Cath. Don't be dramatic!"

That's when Grace set down her fork and stood up from her chair. She fixed her son with a look that could freeze fire.

"Alan." Her voice was deadly calm. "Would you mind repeating what you just said to your wife?"

"I said..."

"No." Grace held up one finger. "Word for word. What did you just tell Catherine to do?"

Alan's face went red. He looked around the table for support. But found none.

"I asked her to take Zoey home so I could celebrate my birthday with you guys."

"Your 39 weeks pregnant wife. Who could go into labor at any moment. You want her to drive home alone with your four-year-old daughter so you can drink beer and smoke cigars."

When she said it like that, it sounded even worse.

"Mom, it's not..."

"Sit down, Alan."

He sat.

Grace walked around the table until she stood behind my chair. Her hands rested gently on my shoulders.

"Catherine is carrying your child. YOUR child, Alan. She is nine months pregnant, exhausted, and in pain. And instead of taking care of her, you want to send her away so you can party?"

"It's just one night."

"One night? What if she goes into labor while you're drunk here? What then? She calls an Uber to the hospital while you're too wasted to drive?"

"And another thing." Grace wasn't finished. "This woman has been to every doctor's appointment alone. Every ultrasound. Every checkup. While you've been working weekends and playing with your friends."

My eyes filled with tears. Someone finally saw it. And finally understood.

"She's been asking you for months to help prepare for this baby. The nursery isn't finished. You haven't learned anything about labor or delivery despite having a little daughter. You act like this pregnancy is something that's happening to YOU instead of something you're both doing together."

Kelly stared at her plate. Jake cleared his throat uncomfortably. Zoey looked confused by all the adult tension.

"Mom, you don't understand..."

"Oh, I understand perfectly. I understand that my son has forgotten what it means to be a husband."

The silence stretched on forever. Alan's face went from red to white.

"I'm going home," I whispered.

Grace squeezed my shoulders gently. "I'm coming with you, sweetheart. You shouldn't be alone tonight."

I pushed back from the table as carefully as I could. Every movement felt like broken glass in my joints.

"Come on, baby girl." I held out my hand to Zoey. "Let's go home."

"Is Daddy coming too?"

I looked at Alan. He sat frozen in his chair, staring at his plate.

"No, honey. Daddy wants to stay here. And party."

Zoey's face crumpled slightly, but she took my hand.

I didn't say goodbye to anyone else.

The drive home was quiet except for Grace humming softly in the backseat and Zoey asking why everyone seemed sad.

"Sometimes grown-ups have disagreements, baby," I managed to say.

"Will you and Daddy be okay?"

I caught Grace's eyes in the rearview mirror. She gave me a small, sad smile.

"I don't know, sweetheart. I honestly don't know."

Back home, Grace helped me get Zoey ready for bed while I collapsed on the couch. My back felt like someone had taken a sledgehammer to it.

"Grandma, will you read to me?" Zoey asked, clutching her favorite book.

"Of course, little one."

While they read upstairs, I sat in the living room thinking about my marriage. And the man I thought I'd married versus the one who just asked his pregnant wife to leave his birthday party.

When did we become strangers?

Grace came back downstairs with two cups of tea.

"How long has he been like this?"

"Since I got pregnant. Maybe before. I don't know anymore."

The baby kicked hard against my ribs. I winced and rubbed the spot where tiny feet pressed against my skin.

"They're getting stronger. The doctor says it could be any day now."

She nodded thoughtfully. "Are you scared?"

I considered the question. A week ago, I would've said yes. Terrified, actually. But that night, something had shifted.

"Not about the baby. I'm scared about everything else. About what happens next. About whether I can do this alone."

"You won't be alone, dear. I meant what I said earlier. You and this baby are my priority. Whatever my son decides to do, you'll have me."

Another strong kick made me gasp. This little person inside me was running out of room. Soon, very soon, I'd hold my child in my arms.

"I keep wondering what I'll tell this baby about tonight," I whispered. "About their father choosing a party over being here."

Grace reached over and took my hand. "You'll tell them they were wanted. Desperately wanted by their mother and grandmother. That's what matters."

The house felt different then. Quieter. Like everything had changed in the span of one dinner conversation.

Alan still hadn't come home. I wondered if he was still at his sister's apartment celebrating his "freedom."

The baby kicked again, stronger this time. Like they're ready to meet this complicated world I've brought them into.

I placed both hands on my belly and whispered, "I don't know what your daddy's thinking right now, little one. But I promise you this: You will never doubt that you're loved. Not for one second."

Very soon, I'll have decisions to make. Hard ones. About my marriage. About what kind of example I want to set for my children. About whether some behavior is simply unforgivable.

As I write this now, I'm just a mother waiting for her baby to arrive. I'm surrounded by people who truly love us. And I'm ready to fight for the family I want my children to have, even if that family looks different than I once imagined.

The rest? Well, we'll figure it out once the baby arrives.

If this story moved you, here's another one about losing everything and still being asked to give more: At 31, I should've been picking baby names. Instead, I was picking flowers for my husband's funeral. Then his family came for the one thing he left me.

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

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