My Mother Hated Me for Looking Like My Biological Father, but Everything Changed When I Finally Found Him — Story of the Day

All my life, I felt like an outsider in my own family. My mother adored my sisters but treated me like a burden. The reason? I looked too much like the man she wished to forget. When I finally discovered the truth about my real father, everything changed—but not in the way she expected.

They say children pay for the sins of their parents. My mother made sure that was true, though she never admitted it. All my life, I felt like a stranger in my own family, and it turned out there was a reason for that.

I grew up with two older sisters, Kira and Alexa. I spent my childhood watching how our mother treated them.

She loved them openly, bought them expensive clothes, gave them new toys, and took them out for ice cream on warm summer days.

Mom brushed their hair, kissed their foreheads, and told them how much she adored them.

Meanwhile, I got their worn-out clothes, their old toys, and their leftovers. Moreover, I got orders.

“Olivia, clean the kitchen.”

“Olivia, fold the laundry.”

“Olivia, stop standing around and do something useful.”

I was a servant in my own home, and nobody seemed to care.

My father tried to protect me. I remember the times he pulled me into a hug when my mother’s words cut too deep.

He used to tell me I was special. That I mattered. But as I grew older, he did that less and less. His voice lost its strength, and his kindness faded into silence.

Then, the arguments started.

“I’m telling you, she’s your daughter!” my mother screamed.

“How can she be mine?! We both have brown hair, and she’s a blonde with blue eyes!” my father shouted back.

“That happens! Maybe someone in the family had lighter features!” my mother insisted.

“Then let’s do a paternity test!”

The fights became a routine. But I never forgot those words.

By fourteen, I couldn’t stand being home. I got a job, not just for money, but to escape.

With my first paycheck, I bought a DNA test.

And when the results came, everything fell apart.

***

One evening, I stepped through the door and saw my father standing in the living room.

He held an envelope in his hand, his eyes locked on my name printed across the front.

“What is this?” he asked. His voice was sharp. “Why is this letter addressed to you?”

“Give it back,” I said, reaching for it.

He pulled it away. “Explain first,” he said. His grip tightened on the paper.

I hesitated. My hands trembled.

“It’s… a DNA test.”

Dad didn’t wait. He tore it open. His eyes scanned the page. Then, his face twisted with rage.

“SIMONA!” he roared.

My mother rushed in. “What is it, darling?”

“Olivia, go to your room,” my father ordered.

“But—”

“NOW!” he shouted.

I turned and left, my heart pounding. I didn’t have to guess what the results were.

My parents’ voices carried through the thin walls, each word cutting deeper than the last.

“She’s not mine?!” my father shouted.

“It doesn’t matter!” my mother snapped.

“It matters to me! You lied to me, Simona! For fourteen years!”

“You don’t understand! I had no choice!”

I pressed my hands over my ears, but nothing could block out the truth.

He wasn’t my biological father. My mother had cheated on him.

***

Days later, Dad tested my sisters. Alexa was his, but Kira wasn’t. I watched from the hallway as he packed his bags.

“You’re leaving?” I whispered.

He didn’t look at me.

“I have to.”

Later, Dad filed for divorce, paid child support for Alexa, and cut ties with the rest of us. After he left, my mother’s hatred for me grew.

“This is your fault,” she hissed. “If you didn’t look so much like him, none of this would have happened.”

She ignored me unless she needed something. I was invisible until it was time to clean.

But Kira? She never lifted a finger. My mother still adored her.

“My beautiful girl,” she’d say, tucking Kira’s hair behind her ear. “You look just like me.”

I was nothing to Mom. I had never been.

***

One day, my mother walked into the room. Her face was cold, her arms crossed.

“I’ve decided you will start paying rent,” she said.

“What? I already buy my own groceries!”

“You earn money. It’s only fair.”

I clenched my fists. “Then make Alexa and Kira pay too! Why only me? Why do you treat me like this?!”

Mom's eyes darkened.

“Because you ruined my life! This is your fault!”

I felt like I'd been slapped. I turned and ran to my room, slamming the door behind me.

But it didn’t matter. Mom never changed her mind. I had no choice. I paid rent.

Alexa made things worse. She dumped my makeup in the sink, cut holes in my shirts, and threw my food in the trash.

Once, I even found my entire paycheck missing. I stormed into her room.

“Why are you doing this?!”

“Because Dad left because of you!” Alexa screamed. “If you had just looked like Mom! Like Kira!”

As if I had any control over that.

***

As soon as I finished high school, I knew I had to get away. My manager from my old job saw my determination and offered to help. He spoke to his son, who ran a company, and got me a position as a sales representative.

It wasn’t glamorous, but it paid well. With my first few paychecks, I found a small apartment and moved out immediately. For the first time in my life, I had my own space. No one was barking orders at me.

I felt free. But my mother and sisters didn’t disappear. They always found a reason to contact me. They never called to ask how I was.

They only wanted money.

The older I got, the more they demanded. At first, I gave in, hoping it would make them leave me alone. It never did.

One day, when my mother came knocking again. I decided I wanted something in return.

“I want to know my biological father’s name,” I said.

She scoffed. “I told you, he doesn’t want you. He abandoned you.”

“Then I won’t give you any more money.”

Her lips curled in annoyance, but she finally relented.

“His name is Rick,” my mother said, scribbling down an address. “Go ahead. Waste your time.”

I scraped together my savings and made the five-hour trip to reach the address. My hands felt clammy as I walked up the steps and knocked.

The door opened, and a middle-aged man stood before me. His eyes widened, and he stared at me.

“Are you Rick?” I asked carefully.

“Yes.”

“I—”

“You’re my daughter,” he said before I could finish.

He didn’t hesitate. He didn’t look confused. He knew.

“You— You recognize me?”

“Of course,” he said, stepping aside. “Come in.”

I followed him inside, my mind spinning. His home felt warm. Pictures lined the walls—family vacations, birthday parties, smiling faces.

A life I had never been part of.

“Why didn’t you try to contact me?” I finally asked.

“I did. I paid child support until you turned eighteen, but your mother told me you hated me. She said you wanted nothing to do with me.”

Shock rippled through me.

“I never knew. She told me you didn’t want me.”

“That’s not true. You’re my daughter. Of course, I wanted you.”

Tears filled my eyes as he pulled me into a hug. His embrace was firm, real, safe. I had never felt anything like it. I let out a shaky breath and held on.

From that day on, we stayed in touch. He invited me over, introduced me to his wife and two sons.

They welcomed me without hesitation. I had never been part of a family before.

One day, during a visit, Rick handed me a folder.

“What’s this?” I asked.

“A house. It’s yours.”

I gasped. “What?!”

“It’s the least I can do. For the years we lost.”

I threw my arms around him. No one had ever cared about me like that before. For the first time in my life, I had my own space.

That joy faded almost instantly.

***

One day, I ran into Kira at the store. I mentioned, almost without thinking, that I had my own house now. Her jaw tightened. She didn’t congratulate me. She just stared, her jealousy plain as day.

When I stepped inside, I found my mother and Kira living there.

“What are you doing here?!”

“Oh, Olivia, you’re back,” my mother said without a trace of shame. She didn’t even look up.

“Answer me,” I demanded, my hands shaking.

My mother sighed and finally met my eyes. “I lost my job. I couldn’t pay rent for three months. We got evicted. So, I decided that Kira and I would stay with you.”

“Are you insane?! You didn’t even ask me!”

“Don’t be so dramatic.”

Kira smirked. “There are only two bedrooms, so you’ll have to stay somewhere else for now.”

I stared at them in disbelief. “You are not staying in my house!”

Kira rolled her eyes. “Well, you can sleep on the couch if you don’t want to move.”

Something inside me snapped.

“This is my house! I will sleep in my bed! You are leaving right now!”

My mother jumped up, her face twisted with rage.

“How dare you?! I raised you! I gave you everything!”

“Raised me?” I scoffed. “You treated me like a servant! I bought my own groceries! I even paid you rent!”

“You had a job,” she said defensively.

I shook my head. “In the short time I’ve known my real father, he has done more for me than you ever did!”

“If you don’t let us stay here, I will sue you for this house!”

“You have no legal right to it! Either you leave now, or I’m calling the police.”

My mother forced a smile. “Olivia, sweetheart. You’re my daughter. I’ve always loved you. Let us stay.”

“No!”

Without another word, they bolted out of my house. When the door slammed shut behind them, I exhaled deeply and sank onto the couch. My entire body felt drained.

It hurt knowing that my own mother only remembered me when she needed something. She never cared about me, only what I could give her.

But that moment made one thing clear—I had to cut them out of my life. I changed the locks. Blocked their numbers. That was the last time I saw them.

And I had never felt so free.

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